The Professional People-Pleaser: How to Set Boundaries at Work
anxiety, trauma Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC anxiety, trauma Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

The Professional People-Pleaser: How to Set Boundaries at Work

People-pleasing, while well-intentioned, can sometimes lead to self-doubt and anxiety, especially in a work setting. Recognize if you relate to behaviors like overcommitting, fearing disapproval, or overworking yourself. Setting boundaries may feel daunting, but it's vital to protect your time and well-being. Challenge unhelpful thoughts, be mindful of people-pleasing habits, communicate your boundaries clearly, and consider seeking therapy for guidance in breaking free from these patterns.

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6 Ways to Stop People-Pleasing
anxiety, trauma Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC anxiety, trauma Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

6 Ways to Stop People-Pleasing

Excessive people-pleasing, often stemming from anxiety, can erode self-esteem and strain relationships. Recognize signs like fear of disappointment and neglecting your own needs. Combat this pattern by setting boundaries, fostering self-worth, embracing discomfort, and seeking professional support.

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8 Ways to Manage Seasonal Depression
depression, trauma, grief Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC depression, trauma, grief Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

8 Ways to Manage Seasonal Depression

Seasonal depression, also known as Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), can cast a shadow on the changing seasons. As days get shorter, energy levels can plummet, leaving us sad, disinterested, and socially withdrawn. But there's hope. From staying active and connecting with support systems to considering light therapy and therapy, you can brighten your winter days and find the light even in the midst of the winter blues.

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4 Steps to Set Boundaries in Relationships
anxiety, trauma, couples Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC anxiety, trauma, couples Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

4 Steps to Set Boundaries in Relationships

Creating boundaries is vital for maintaining healthy relationships and safeguarding our mental and physical well-being. These limits define how others should treat us and how we respond when they're crossed. While the list is not exhaustive, boundaries can be set in areas like personal space, time, emotions, possessions, beliefs, politics, and religion. Setting boundaries enhances self-esteem, self-respect, and assertive communication, and preserves mental and emotional energy. If you need help with setting and maintaining boundaries, reach out to me today for support.

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