Feeling Hopeless? Understanding Despair and Finding Meaning in Life
depression, trauma, grief, hypnotherapy Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC depression, trauma, grief, hypnotherapy Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

Feeling Hopeless? Understanding Despair and Finding Meaning in Life

Hopelessness and depression can quietly shape daily life, creating persistent feelings of despair, fatigue, and disconnection. These experiences may appear hidden to others, yet they affect motivation, relationships, and overall well-being. Understanding how hopelessness arises and recognizing small ways to reconnect with meaning can help change one’s perspective and bring gentle relief.

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What is OCD?: Understanding Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder and Its Many Forms
anxiety, hypnotherapy, trauma, grief, couples Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC anxiety, hypnotherapy, trauma, grief, couples Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

What is OCD?: Understanding Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder and Its Many Forms

OCD is more than being particular or tidy; it’s a complex condition where intrusive thoughts and compulsions can disrupt daily life. It shows up in many forms, from contamination and checking to relationship or intrusive thoughts, and can affect work, relationships, and emotional well-being. Understanding its different types helps bring clarity, compassion, and perspective to this often-misunderstood condition.

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Healing Attachment Styles With Parts Work
anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, couples, hypnotherapy Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, couples, hypnotherapy Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

Healing Attachment Styles With Parts Work

Old wounds from childhood can shape the way you connect with the people you love. For example, some parts of you may crave closeness while other parts pull away. Understanding your attachment style and caring for your inner parts through IFS/parts work therapy can help you feel safer, build trust in relationships, and experience connection more fully.

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How Long Does Grief Last? 5 Strategies to Heal and Cope
grief, depression Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC grief, depression Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

How Long Does Grief Last? 5 Strategies to Heal and Cope

Grief is one of life’s most profound experiences, and it doesn’t follow a set timeline. Whether it’s the loss of a loved one, the end of a relationship, or another significant life change, grief can feel overwhelming, confusing, and isolating. Understanding how long grief can last and exploring practical coping strategies, such as acknowledging emotions, journaling, and seeking professional support, can provide comfort and help you heal at your own pace.

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You Are Not Broken: How Parts Work Therapy Helps You Heal
anxiety, trauma, grief, depression Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC anxiety, trauma, grief, depression Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

You Are Not Broken: How Parts Work Therapy Helps You Heal

Parts work therapy, also known as Internal Family Systems (IFS), helps you make sense of inner conflict, anxiety, and shame by connecting with the different parts of yourself with compassion, not judgment. If you’ve felt overwhelmed by emotional patterns or stuck in self-blame, IFS offers a grounded, healing path forward.

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The Courage to Start Over When Facing Change
anxiety, grief Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC anxiety, grief Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

The Courage to Start Over When Facing Change

Change can be intimidating and overwhelming, but it’s also an opportunity for growth and transformation. By shifting your perspective, building resilience, and trusting your inner strength, you can face life’s transitions with confidence and create a future that aligns with your true self.

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Practical Coping Skills for Dealing with Anxiety, Depression, Grief, and Trauma
anxiety, grief, trauma, depression Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC anxiety, grief, trauma, depression Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

Practical Coping Skills for Dealing with Anxiety, Depression, Grief, and Trauma

Coping skills encompass a variety of strategies and techniques aimed at effectively handling anxiety, depression, and other complex emotions. They are essential in navigating tough circumstances, understanding our emotions, and nurturing our mental well-being. It's crucial to recognize that coping skills come in various forms—some beneficial and adaptive, while others may prove detrimental or maladaptive.

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Coping With Grief During the Holidays
grief, depression Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC grief, depression Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

Coping With Grief During the Holidays

The holidays are a time for joy and celebration. Unfortunately, many of us are also dealing with the loss of a loved one at this time. Grieving over the holidays can feel overwhelming and difficult to handle. Continue reading for guidance on coping with grief during the holidays.

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8 Ways to Manage Seasonal Depression
depression, trauma, grief Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC depression, trauma, grief Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

8 Ways to Manage Seasonal Depression

Seasonal depression, also known as Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), can cast a shadow on the changing seasons. As days get shorter, energy levels can plummet, leaving us sad, disinterested, and socially withdrawn. But there's hope. From staying active and connecting with support systems to considering light therapy and therapy, you can brighten your winter days and find the light even in the midst of the winter blues.

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